Home – Our Secret Highway

About this Blog

Sometimes having a voice is the last hope that any of us can cling to. So this forum will be that voice. Not a Voice of Redemption or epiphany. Just a voice that may ring a bell in your soul or maybe it won’t. Regardless, it is not a waste of time or energy because we all know that energy is never lost.

It just transforms and morphs into Something Else.

This project is part of chasing that “Something Else“.

Letters from the INside…

I met Jon online almost two years ago when I was somewhere south of the Ohio River and North of the Savannah. Simple text and phone call- 4th of July, middle of the night. The “real” fireworks were just beginning… I was checking out some ads on a hookup site called Secret Benefits, and he…
The Interview: A Diagram of an Online Hookup…

There are several distinct phases when trying to meet someone online that are pretty consistent overall. An omission or failure to address any of these could end up with potentially disastrous outcomes for one or both parties involved. Always remember.. Safety first! For BOTH parties.
Basic Definitions When Reading a Review

Here are some basic concepts to think about anytime you go online to either hookup, find a provider, or whatever it is that you are doing on whatever site you are on. There is obviously a purpose to you being there- so define it and own it, or it will end up defining you.
The Venue: Skip The Games

Skip The Games (STG), happened because of some significant legal battles that preceded it’s entrance into the game of Intimate Adult Social Dynamics (IASD).
The Chicken or the Egg?

The old adage: Which came first? The Chicken or the Egg? IMO? Who gives a Fuk? If its the egg? Sunnyside up baby!!! If it’s the chicken? Give me Wingz & Bleu Cheese on the side…
“Why Can’t They Write???”

So many promises made when High- so much lost when Not-High… There is no “straight” or “normal” to return to. That bridge is burned and gone up in smoke.