The Thousand Yard Stare

You can actually see it in the face of an animal that’s being eaten alive by a predator. The animal is alive and the eyes are open, but it’s eyes are blank and lifeless.

Scribbles, Nibbles & Quotes… [1]

"So my take on Sally is that Heroin is destroying her. That sucks cuz we have really good chemistry. But I can’t compete with it and if I try to compete with it by financial help all I’m doing is feeding that very hungry fire…"

Britt: JailTALK_Her

Part 1: I admire Courage. I'm sharing Britt's Courage- Not Mine. Pretty sure we could all use an ounce of what she is sharing here. What you are witnessing here is her intrepid belief that indeed I would come through for her even after 2 months of no contact. She never wavered.

Britt: Dreamz in Solitude …

I think in anyone’s life, when they see their life as hopeless – the smallest sparkle of a chance, that once-in-a-lifetime glimmer of hope, that if it is offered? It is like a breath of redemption for a drowning soul.

Britt: It Beginz… Part 1

We are also naturally drawn to wanting to be forgiven. Redemption is the act of working towards someone's forgiveness and when both forgiveness and redemption are working to heal the relationship, our journey to being able to accept someone's wrongdoing is greatly supported.

Letters from the INside…

I met Jon online almost two years ago when I was somewhere south of the Ohio River and North of the Savannah. Simple text and phone call- 4th of July, middle of the night. The "real" fireworks were just beginning... I was checking out some ads on a hookup site called Secret Benefits, and he... Continue Reading →

The Interview: A Diagram of an Online Hookup…

There are several distinct phases when trying to meet someone online that are pretty consistent overall. An omission or failure to address any of these could end up with potentially disastrous outcomes for one or both parties involved. Always remember.. Safety first! For BOTH parties.

Basic Definitions When Reading a Review

Here are some basic concepts to think about anytime you go online to either hookup, find a provider, or whatever it is that you are doing on whatever site you are on. There is obviously a purpose to you being there- so define it and own it, or it will end up defining you.

The Chicken or the Egg?

The old adage: Which came first? The Chicken or the Egg? IMO? Who gives a Fuk? If its the egg? Sunnyside up baby!!! If it's the chicken? Give me Wingz & Bleu Cheese on the side...

And It Beginz…

This shit is not ez- gotta weed out the heroin addicts, the pimps, the slaves, the absolutely weird ass motherfuckersz that think any hole will sell. It’s a rat race. Every dick wants pussy- or a hole to call home.

I HAVE a LIFE

My mother died on Pearl Harbor day- the 7th of December, 2013. And today is December 13, eight years and six days further down that stream of life we try to corral, but never can. So it's fitting that I think of her as I begin this project. That's neither good, bad, or ominous. It just fits that relationship is all. You'll figure it out sooner or later. The abused always return to the abuser. Go kick you dog and find out- or plz don't because I love dogs. So don't.

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